YOU HAVE HEARD OF THE PHRASE "READING IN BETWEEN THE LINES"? People who have this skill are what I call Master Communicators. There are two Master Communicators one who communicates to help you as not to embarrass or divulge information in the conversation. The other Master Communicator will use the skill to convey to be a helper although,their communication they will leave you confused.
A MASTER COMMUNICATOR USES THIS SKILL WHEN THEY ARE IN A AWKWARD POSITION. THEY MAY BE IN A CROWD AND THEY NEED TO COMMUNICATE WITH ONE SPECIFIC PERSON OR THEY ARE ON THE PHONE AND THERE ARE OTHER PEOPLE WHO COULD HEAR THEIR CONVERSATION. LETS EXPLORE THE EXAMPLE BELOW :
YOUR CAR NEEDS TO BE REPAIRED AND THE COST WILL BE $1500.00. YOUR TELL YOUR FRIEND ABOUT THE SITUATION AND HE OR SHE TELLS YOU THAT THEY KNOW A MECHANIC WHO THEY CAN REFER YOU TOO HOWEVER, THE COST WILL BE $1500.00 AND DO YOU HAVE $750.00 ? YOU RESPOND YES. THEN THE FRIEND GIVES YOU THE MECHANIC'S TELEPHONE NUMBER AND TELLS YOU TO CALL TO SET AN APPOINTMENT. WHEN YOU CALL THE MECHANIC HE TELLS YOU THE JOB WILL COST $1500.00 TO COMPLETE THE JOB. WHEN HEARING THIS YOU PROCEED TO SET THE APPOINTMENT. THEN YOU CALL YOUR FREIND AND TELL THEM THE MECHANIC QUOTED YOU THE COST OF THE JOB WILL BE $1500.00. AGAIN YOU ARE ASKED DO YOU HAVE $750.00 AND YOUR REPLY IS "YES". AFTER THE SECOND CALL YOU DECIDE TO CALL THE MECHANIC AND CANCEL THE APPOINTMENT.
HINT : THE MECHANIC KNEW WHO WAS PAYING THE REMANING BALANCE $750.00
THE MASTER COMMUNICATOR KNEW THEY WERE PAYING THE REMAINING BALANCE
BECAUSE YOU DIDNOT KNOW HOW TO READ "IN BETWEEN THE LINES" AND DID NOT RECONZINE WHICH MASTER COMMUMICATOR YOU WERE TALKING TOO. ALSO, DIDNOT CONFRONT THE CONVERSATION YOU MISSED OUT ON A GOOD DEAL. THIS WILL GIVE YOU MORE INSIGHT KNOWING WHICH TYPE OF MASTER COMMUNICATOR YOU ARE OR IMPROVE YOUR LISTENING SKILLS. TO READ IN BETWEEN THE LINES
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